New country and connection type restrictions

As of 1 April 2020, we are rolling out new restrictions on who can create a new account on our dating website

Restriction by country

The first restrictions is by country. Users from the following countries will be able to register and use

  • United States
  • United Kingdom
  • Canada
  • Ireland

Users from other countries that have already registered  before 1st April 2020 will be able to continue to log in and use the website.

This change will allow us to focus on countries where the most of our user base comes from, further focusing on quality and genuity of our users.

Restriction by connection type

We are also limiting who can create a new account on by connection type. Users connecting via VPN, proxy or hosting providers will no longer be able to create a new account. Users connecting from normal domestic or business ISPs or from trusted providers directly will not be affected by this change.

We believe that this change will further reduce number of fake accounts that spammers and scammers use to disguise their identity. This should bring us closer to one of our main goals which is to provide spam and scam free dating community.

Abuse reporting on our dating website

The long awaited abuse reporting feature has finally been released and it already proved itself successful.

Users at dating website now can easily report other users that do not follow the site rules.

Thanks to this feature, we are able to detect even more spammers and scammers. Together with our software solutions and algorithms that detects abuse automatically, this feature dramatically improves quality of dating profiles on

We would like to thank all users that help us weed out all kinds of these bad users so that the genuine ones have a better chance to find love.

New dating website spam, fraud, abuse detection and prevention on

We have experienced remarkable increase in number of user registrations this summer (2019). We believe that this happened due to the summer update to Google Search algorithm. This increase, however, brought more fake profiles, spam and even scammers to our website.

We used a third party spam prevention service that worked brilliantly and the website was running de facto “on autopilot” in terms of abuse control. But this meant that paying for these services became financially unsustainable very quickly; from £10s, the monthly bills started increasing up to £100s with a prospect of £1,000s bill for the next month. At this point, the only option was to disable the third party spam control.

This came with price. From roughly only 5% of all registered verified users being spam while using the third party spam control, the number grew to some 60 – 70% when we stopped using it. This increased time needed to check users manually. This took as much as 2 hours per day of manual user administration.

We then developed our own fraud detection system with a different and much cheaper “wholesale” API integrated into the user registration process on This now works brilliantly; 90% of users are suspended by our AI and the rest is marked for manual check by user administrators. This brings down the user admin time to 10 – 15 minutes per day and the cost down to mid £100s while only roughly 1% of the bad guys slip through. These users are then eventually caught red handed by admins or reported by other dating users.

Online Dating Done Right

When it comes to online dating it can be an absolute minefield. There are plenty of good people out there looking for love, but they can be hard to find. There are several simple things that you can do though that will improve your chances of finding Mr or Mrs Right online. Let us guide you through it.

Getting the Dating Profile Right

Getting your dating profile right isn’t the easiest thing in the world, but there are several things you can do to give yourself the best shot at it. Firstly don’t be modest, starting your dating website profile with ‘I’m no good at this’ will put people off straight away. Likewise, bragging isn’t good either. ‘I make a great paella’ is good, ‘I have a fantastic job, make loads of money, and no one can understand why I am single’ is not. Don’t be needy and don’t be over the top. Be yourself.

Make Your Dating Profile Stand Out

Having ‘I love music and hanging out with friends’ doesn’t
do anything for your profile, as this is true of practically every person in
the world. Be original and be specific. Don’t say you like sunsets (everyone
does) say which is the best sunset you have ever seen. Mention specific music
tracks you like, rather than something generic. Also, don’t admit that a friend
wrote your profile as this makes it look like you have no self-awareness and
are not smart enough to write it yourself.

Picture Perfect

Make sure that you have a dating profile picture, those that don’t either scream ‘I’m so ugly that there is no way I am giving you a picture, I am married, or I am on the run from the law’. Have more than one picture. It is impossible to tell what someone is like from a single pic, so people that like you will want to see more. Likewise, make sure that your pictures are realistic and not Photoshop art. People will soon find the truth out when they meet you for real. No pictures with your top off, men or women, this screams that you are only interested in one thing or are desperate.


It may take a while before you get any messages particularly
if you are a man. Be proactive when it comes to messaging, playing hard to get
doesn’t work, neither does bombarding them with message spam. Ask them a few
questions about their profile and keep it interesting. Be aware that you don’t
have to reply to anyone that messages you. No reply is often better than a
‘thanks, but no thanks’ message. Also, remember that messaging is a stopgap to
meeting someone. You don’t want a conversation to go on for weeks before you
meet. You need that in-person interaction. Six messages in total are enough to
know whether you want to meet or not.

When it comes to online dating there are a lot of unwritten rules and it can take a while to get your head around it, but it is possible to find true love online. Good luck.

5,000 active verified users

There’s now 5,000 verified users on from all over the world.

Our main goal is to bring genuine and quality users to our matchmaking website so we are busy not only bringing new users but, mainly, making sure these users are genuine and their intention is to find love on our 100% free dating website.

Lucky In Love – How To Find Your Soulmate

Love is easy. It’s all consuming, incredible to be wrapped up in, and pretty easy when it’s right. However, finding it? That’s sometimes a little more tricky. In the minefield of dating, coming across your soulmate can sometimes seem like an impossible task. However, there’s a few things that you can do to make sure that you come across your ideal partner sooner rather than later, and we’re going to be looking at them here.


Use Dating Websites


A dating website is an incredible resource. You can quickly and easily find a whole host of people in your area who share your unique passions and loves. A dating site will often be free to sign up for, and they’re designed to allow anyone to start looking for their soulmate. When you’ve seen people you think are right for you, it’s just a matter of sending them an email or message and starting a conversation. A lot of people find love on these sites. They’re not about the cliche of people who are desperate, it’s just ordinary people who struggle to find love on their own. Sites like these, and ours, just help to connect people and bring them together. And if you find love, then what does it matter how you came together in the first place?




These kinds of events are designed for people who aren’t all that lucky in love just yet. They’re events that people can go to, and there’s no pressure to do anything. It’s often a chilled out party environment, and people strike up conversations and meet new faces. You never know what kind of experience you’ll have, and whether you’ll find love, which makes them a great place for meeting a potential romance. If you wind up dating someone you met at the event, fantastic. If not, you’ve made some new friends.


Ask Some Friends


When you’ve got a lot of friends, it’s possible you can ask them to introduce you to someone they know. Your friends know you, and what you’re like as a person, so they’ll know if there’s someone in their social circles that would be good for you. Don’t be afraid to ask them, good friends will help you out and understand why you’re doing it.


Overall, these are just a few of the different things you can do to find your soulmate sooner rather than later. We all dislike waiting – it’s boring and nothing really happens. So why wait? It’s better to just speed up the process and actively start looking for love. However, it’s important to remember that you’re a unique individual who will be a perfect match for someone. Don’t ever feel like you have to change yourself in any way just to be accepted. If you have a desire to improve yourself, that’s great, but never change yourself for someone else. You should make sure that you’re staying true to yourself whenever you meet someone new, because otherwise you won’t feel truly happy.

We let in only genuine dating users

At we believe that quality online dating experience matters. One of the most challenging parts of achieving this is making sure that users signing up to our online dating service are genuine.

For this reason, we run specialised software that takes care of just that; it detects users that do not seem to be genuine and eventually blocks them from registering and logging in. Even if a non-genuine user “slips in”, we detect and see their unwanted activities and these users are suspended by our software or manually by our administrators.

By looking at stats from last 3 months, only 5% of all users were considered acceptable, 31% risky and 64% were rejected and not let in by our safeguard software features.

Dating Only Verified Users

Online Dating Myths That Need to Go Away

The dating scene has certainly changed over the past few decades. People no longer date in the traditional sense of meeting out in public. With so many people leading busy lives the world of online dating has opened up tremendously. Even still, online dating maintains many stereotypes and myths that are just untrue. It is likely that you have heard at least some of these myths. It is time to put them to rest, finally.

Men Are Only Seeking Younger Women

One of the most prevalent misconceptions is the fact that people often believe that men are only looking for women up to the age of 30. It is true that a select number of older men are seeking relationships with much younger women, but most of these men come to the realization that the increased age range can put a damper on the relationship. Once men get past the fantasy of dating a young, super model type of women, they tend to begin looking for a solid relationship with women their own age. Your age is a number and actually not as important as some people would have you believe.

Everyone is Lying

You will always have someone that will attempt to lie on their profile, but for the most part, people who utilize online dating websites are looking for an actual relationship rather than just a hook up. The notion that everyone is lying was largely emphasized by the media depicting the scenarios in movies. The true fact is that relationships are formed through honesty and people realize that they are not going to be able to keep up with the lies for an extended amount of time.

It is Dangerous

It is true that there have been some dangerous happenings on online dating websites in the past, but those were during the early years of online dating sites before the sites thought to utilize background checks into their requirements. These days many online dating websites require that all users undergo a strict background check to ensure that the user is in fact who they say they are and pose no threat to potential dates. Today whether you are dating in the UK, looking for American singles, or dating worldwide, you can do so online in a safe environment.

The Photo is the Most Important Aspect

You will find the occasional person within the online dating world that is merely scrolling through photos to see who is the most attractive person. Truthfully, however the photo is only a piece of the puzzle and has no bearing on the deep attraction that comes from getting to know the real person apart from their overall appearance. One of the most useful studies for deep attraction came from the popular online dating site OkCupid.

During the study that was called Love is Blind, the site removed all profile pictures from the profiles of their users. The result was obvious and the use of the site quickly dropped to only 20%, but the ones that decided to continue to look through the profiles found themselves lucky in love with people that they would not have normally connected with. The deep connections formed on that day revealed that the deep connection that people crave was easier to gain access to when the initial attraction was not a factor. Although you do want to have a photo on your online dating profile, you should not focus on the mere makeup of the photo to make you appear perfect, but rather one that shows others your true personality.

Online Dating is for a Specific Type of People

There is a large misconception among daters these days that online dating is only for a specific type of person. The truth is that online dating sites are available for everyone. No matter your age, location, or even how many relationships you have had in the past, there is always someone out there for everyone. Online dating simply widens the playing field from attempting to find love in one establishment to a wide world of endless possibilities. Never think that you are not able to find the love you seek just because you have never tried online dating. Give it a go and see what other wonderful people are seeking love in the same manner.

There has never been a better time in history to get into online dating. The field is wide open and there is no limit to your ability to find a relationship. Where it is true that you may find a dud or two along the way, you can also find yourself in a relationship with someone that is in tune with your individualized needs and perfect for you in every manner. Besides, you can find duds in traditional dating, so why not widen the playing field with online dating sites.